If you and your spouse have children and are involved in a divorce, you must complete and agree upon a parenting plan (aka a custody agreement) before the divorce process can be finalized. This document, which must be signed by both parties, establishes the children’s schedules and living arrangements. It also determines how decisions will be made, and can be used to settle disputes that may arise in the future.
If you and your spouse cannot come to an agreement, the court will make decisions and determine the parenting plan on your behalf. The intention of the court is always to serve the best interests of the child.
What Questions are Addressed in A Parenting Plan?
Because a parenting plan can be so important in determining your child’s future, it is beneficial to consult an experienced New Jersey divorce attorney for assistance. A complete parenting plan should address the following questions:
- What will be the primary residence of the child?
- How will health care decisions be made?
- How will the child be supported financially?
- What are the childcare and babysitting agreements?
- How will special arrangements for holidays and vacations be made?
- How will decisions about the child’s education be made?
- How much time will each parent spend with the child?
- How will parents communicate and make decisions about the child?
- How will future disagreements be settled?
The best parenting plans reduce conflict between the parents and reflect the best interests of the child. But because a parenting plan considers so many factors that influence you and your child’s life, it can be a complex and sometimes difficult document to draft and then agree upon.
Dealing with Disagreements
When both parents agree on a parenting plan, it is usually accepted by the Courts, unless the Court has reason to suspect the child’s safety is in danger or objects in some other way. However, if you and your spouse cannot come to an agreement, you will be asked to create separate plans and the court will take a side or create a new plan that is best for the child. Although it is not always possible, it is cheaper and less traumatic for the children if parents can reach an agreement outside of the courts.
Contact A Knowledgeable New Jersey Divorce Attorney
If you have questions about creating a parenting plan, don’t hesitate to contact the Law Offices of Steven M. Cytryn online or call us at (732) 214-1103 to schedule a consultation to discuss your case in detail with a seasoned New Brunswick divorce attorney. We understand how difficult child custody cases and parenting plans can be for parents, and take a compassionate approach while aggressively advocating for your rights and interests.
