Determining the best custody solution based on what is in the best interest of the child
Child custody is often one of the most difficult issues parents face during a divorce. When divorcing spouses cannot come to an agreement, mediation is usually the first step.
This may be followed by a Custody Neutral Assessment.
If there is still no resolution or there are concerns about the best interest of the child, the court may order a child custody evaluation.
What is a NJ child custody evaluation?
A NJ child custody evaluation is used to determine what arrangements are best for the children’s well-being, which is why it often referred to as a “best-interest evaluation.”
Just like anything involving child custody, an evaluation will take into consideration:
- The child’s physical health and safety
- The child’s emotional needs
- The stability of the home life
- The child’s attachment to a parent, including how much time has been spent and how many activities spent with each parent
A child custody evaluation in NJ is conducted by a neutral mental health professional.
The evaluation will dig more deeply into the relationships between children and each parent and generally include:
- Separate interviews with each parent
- Interviews with each child
- Observations of the interactions between each parent and the child
- Discussions between the evaluator and caregivers, teachers, physicians and others with whom the child and/or the parents have interacted
- Court file reviews
- Possible psychological testing of either or both parents and/or children
To prepare for an evaluation, be organized, be fair, be honest and put your best foot forward
When going through a child custody evaluation, it is normal to feel nervous. Evaluators know that and generally expect it.
At the same time, there are things you can and should do to get the most positive possible outcome for you and your child.
Make sure that you:
- Make a good first impression: That means being on time, dressing appropriately and being polite and respectful.
- Bring the proper documents: Being organized is important. If the evaluator has requested specific documents or records, make sure you have them and also make sure you have a copy for yourself, your attorney and your ex-spouse. Other records should be pertinent and current.
- Be fair and be honest: It is fine to voice your concerns about your ex-spouses, but it is not okay to be derogatory or appear vengeful or angry. Doing so will work against you, not for you.
- Take notes: Make sure you jot down any questions you may have and any important information you may get. It may be important down the line.
Our New Brunswick attorney can help guide you through the NJ child custody evaluation process
A NJ child custody evaluation is difficult and nerve-wracking and the outcome is vitally important to helping you maintain a healthy, loving and continuing relationship with your child.
To learn more about how our New Brunswick child custody lawyer may be able to help, please contact us online or call our office at (732) 214-1103 to schedule a confidential consultation.
